Remember when finding the one felt like the hardest part—whether it was Mr., Ms., or Mx. Right in a sea of Hell’s Kitchen happy hours?
Now it’s awkward silences on Prospect Park dog walks (your French Bulldog senses the tension), grabbing another La Colombe latte in the West Village, or hoping that a Fire Island escape will patch things up.
Those Sundays you once cherished—splitting fluffy pancakes at Cafeteria or lounging in sweats with Spotify humming—now feel like echoes of a different time. Even choosing between Drag Race and The White Lotus has become a battleground of unspoken frustrations.
At Gay Couples Therapy NYC, we understand how even the most vibrant love stories can feel like they’re unraveling. Don’t wait until your arguments hit reality TV drama levels or your home feels like an emotional tundra.
The connection that brought you together isn’t lost—it’s buried under life’s noise. With our expert guidance, you can heal, rediscover the spark, and rebuild your path together. The sooner you take action, the faster you’ll move from barely surviving to truly thriving.
Our personalized “Loving at Your Best Plan” is your relationship’s roadmap—guiding you back to joy, trust, and the unique bond that made you fall in love.
We don’t do one-size-fits-all therapy. Here’s how we help you create the relationship you deserve:
NYC relationships are unique—juggling chosen family dynamics, fast-paced careers, and the pressures of city life. Whatever challenges you face, we’re here to guide you back to each other.
Rediscover the love you deserve—because your relationship is too important to settle for survival when it can truly thrive.
Our approach? Fresh and buzzworthy—like that new rooftop bar in Williamsburg—but with real substance behind the style.
We’re not about quick fixes or surface platitudes.
Instead, we focus on deep, transformative breakthroughs that remind you why your first night out together started with whispered conversations at Kind Regards and ended dancing at The Q, feeling like the city was yours alone.
Remember the butterflies during those first late-night walks over the Williamsburg Bridge? That’s the energy we bring to every session—a chance to rediscover what made your heart skip that first beat.
Reigniting your connection doesn’t have to be out of reach. Our approach is anything but cookie-cutter—tailored to meet your unique needs and turn shared moments, like a perfectly crafted drink at Good Judy or a laugh at Metropolitan, into the building blocks of a deeper, lasting bond.
Your relationship deserves the same dedication you bring to your life—whether it’s nailing your Barry’s Bootcamp routine or hunting down that one rooftop table at The Q before sunset.
Taking this step might feel as intimidating as confessing you canceled plans for front-row tickets to Beyoncé’s Renaissance Tour because you “needed a quiet night in.” But here’s the thing—your love deserves the same level of effort you’d put into those once-in-a-lifetime moments.
Click that booking link—because some things, like reconnecting with the person who makes your heart skip, are worth prioritizing over anything.
Here’s the deal: you don’t need to explain why your “chosen family” group chat feels like navigating a political minefield, why that side-eye from Aunt Linda at your cousin’s wedding still haunts you, or how the logistics of an open relationship sometimes feel more complicated than coordinating Fire Island shares.
We get it. We’ve lived it.
Our therapists bring more than degrees and certifications—we bring the kind of insight that comes from living, working, and loving in this city.
Whether you’re figuring out how to keep monogamy hot after all these years, navigating jealousy in your open relationship, or helping everyone in your thruple feel equally cherished, we meet you where you’re at—no judgment, just support to help you get your needs met.
We know why fighting over brunch plans can feel like an existential crisis (Cafeteria or Sadelle’s, anyone?), and we won’t bat an eye when you vent about your partner’s mysterious attachment to his ex’s dog.
This is NYC love—messy, vibrant, and entirely yours—and we’re here to help you make it thrive.
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Reignite the spark and strengthen your bond with our proven methods and empathetic care. Together, let’s create the fulfilling, connected relationship you both deserve.
Every disagreement can be a turning point. Let’s turn those heated moments into heartfelt breakthroughs that bring you closer than ever.
Passion, intimacy, and romance—remember those? Bring back the sparks that made your love story unforgettable and make every moment feel brand new.
Forget surface fixes—this is about creating a relationship that stands the test of time, where you both feel valued, cherished, and truly seen.
Your future is brighter when you’re in it together. Let’s unlock your shared vision and turn aspirations into reality—one dream at a time.
Old patterns holding you back? Not anymore. Discover fresh strategies to break the cycle and build a love story that’s joyful, healthy, and uniquely yours.
Travis Atkinson, founder of Gay Couples Therapy and creator of the Loving at Your Best Plan, brings decades of groundbreaking experience in helping LGBTQ+ couples strengthen their relationships. With deep expertise and a warm, relatable approach, Travis has dedicated his career to making love thrive—even in the chaos of NYC.
Travis co-created Schema Therapy for Couples alongside Jeffrey Young, the founder of Schema Therapy, revolutionizing how couples break free from old patterns and rebuild connection. He was also honored to collaborate with Sue Johnson, the founder of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), in creating the first training video for couples therapists specializing in gay and lesbian relationships.
When it comes to navigating complex relationship challenges, Travis brings unmatched expertise. His advanced certifications reflect years of training and experience:
Travis combines these evidence-based models to tailor interventions specifically for LGBTQ+ couples, offering solutions that resonate and create real change.
Travis leads a team of skilled therapists who share his commitment to empowering LGBTQ+ couples:
Travis and his team are here to guide you through every challenge, from breaking old patterns to reigniting your connection. With a unique blend of expertise and compassion, Gay Couples Therapy NYC is your partner in creating the fulfilling relationship you deserve.
Don’t let love get lost in the shuffle of NYC life. Book your session today and start your journey toward the relationship you’ve always wanted.
At GayCouplesTherapy.com, we provide virtual therapy sessions on a secure, HIPAA-compliant platform to ensure confidentiality and convenience. While in-person sessions are unavailable, we uphold the highest standards of care in compliance with legal licensing requirements.
Our therapists are licensed to practice in the following states:
Important Notes for U.S. Residents:
For clients located outside the United States, licensing rules are generally less restrictive. In most cases, international regulations do not impose licensing requirements on therapists providing virtual services from the U.S. However, you should consult with local laws and regulations to confirm compliance and ensure your eligibility to participate in therapy sessions before meeting with our team.
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