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How Group Schema Therapy Helps Gay Men

How Group Schema Therapy Helps Gay Men

One of the most common issues gay men in New York City face is what schema therapy terms, “social exclusion,” the process of being excluded from social groups and activities that can lead to feelings of isolation and loneliness. For gay men, social exclusion can be especially prevalent due to discrimination and prejudice that still exists in society.

Group schema therapy can be one of the most effective ways for gay men in New York City to address social exclusion issues.

Husband or boyfriend doesn’t want to have sex?

Husband or boyfriend doesn’t want to have sex?

​Managing differences is one of the most challenging aspects of a romantic relationship. We struggle in relationships to understand and accept “otherness” in those we choose to love. To cross over from our own indignation, reach out to our partners, listen deeply, validate, and negotiate difference forces us into uncomfortable places. This is even more […]

7 New Year’s Resolutions for Queer Couples in 2023

7 New Year’s Resolutions for Queer Couples in 2023

You’ve heard the typical New Year’s resolutions before: lose weight, learn to play an instrument, save more money! These resolutions are all well and good, but they rarely last through the whole year.  Most of us start strong for the first 2-4 weeks of the year, like the sudden surge you get every January at […]

Are You a Master in Your Relationship?

Are You a Master in Your Relationship?

3 Ways to Make Your Relationship Even Better Is it easy for you and your partner to talk to each other, even about what may seem like simple things? If it is, chances are, your relationship is in a good place, and your connection is strong. If this is not the case, these little moments […]

What threatens your sexual desire?

What threatens your sexual desire?

Gay couples who commit to the person they love may not always realize some of the challenges they face. For instance, one of the easiest things in a love relationship that can diminish is sexual desire. Lurking in any love relationship are ingredients that can combine to lower and even destroy the sex life of […]

Husband or boyfriend doesn’t want to have sex?
27Dec

Husband or boyfriend doesn’t want to have sex?

​Managing differences is one of the most challenging aspects of a romantic relationship. We struggle in relationships to understand and accept “otherness” in those we choose to love. To cross…

7 New Year’s Resolutions for Queer Couples in 2023
27Dec

7 New Year’s Resolutions for Queer Couples in 2023

You’ve heard the typical New Year’s resolutions before: lose weight, learn to play an instrument, save more money! These resolutions are all well and good, but they rarely last through…

Are You a Master in Your Relationship?
19Dec

Are You a Master in Your Relationship?

3 Ways to Make Your Relationship Even Better Is it easy for you and your partner to talk to each other, even about what may seem like simple things? If…

What threatens your sexual desire?
19Dec

What threatens your sexual desire?

Gay couples who commit to the person they love may not always realize some of the challenges they face. For instance, one of the easiest things in a love relationship…

LGBTQ Valentines Ideas
19Dec

LGBTQ Valentines Ideas

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner! However, this year’s celebrations may look a little different than usual. Okay, they may look significantly different. We’ve been in the throes of…