What is monogamy in an LGBTQ+ relationship? Two partners make an exclusive commitment to each other to only interact romantically and sexually with each other. Is this the right fit for your LGBTQ+ relationship? What are some of the pros and cons of monogamy for LGBTQ+ partners? Is it possible…
Traditional societal norms have prescribed that monogamy is the only acceptable type of romantic relationship. However, in recent decades, the LGBTQ+ community has been at the forefront of challenging these norms and investigating alternative relationship structures. What does “open relationship” mean for gay couples? In relationship terms, an open relationship…
Some people may love more than one person at the same time, which is known as a polyamorous relationship (in Latin, “poly” means many and “amory” means love). Many LGBTQ+ individuals are exploring this relationship dynamic as it becomes more mainstream. For example, according to a 2016 YouGov poll, 50%…
Are couples in marriages of love relationships in the New York LGBTQ+ community facing different challenges than their straight counterparts? New York City is known for its vibrant and diverse LGBTQ+ culture, but it is not without challenges for gay couples in love relationships or marriages. What are some of…
An affair is painful for any relationship, including LGBTQ+ couples. They can break trust, hurt people, and have effects that last for a long time. Unfortunately, many partners in a love relationship may not even realize they are headed for an affair until it’s too late. Because of this, it’s…
Navigating kink, sexual diversity, and fetish can be challenging in any relationship. For queer couples, it could be particularly challenging if we’ve experienced trauma related to our sexual and gender identity. Most of us will grow up without comprehensive sexual education and healthy models of queer relationships, complicating how we…
People naturally need to feel like they belong and are accepted by others. But not everyone has this sense of being part of a group, and for some people, their sexual orientation is the main reason they feel left out of society. As a schema therapist since 1995, I’ve seen…
Valentine’s Day is a special time for couples, and it’s a great opportunity for LGBTQIA+ couples to celebrate love and affection. Living in New York City, there is no shortage of romantic activities for Valentine’s Day. Here’s a checklist to help you plan the perfect day for you and your…
One of the most common issues gay men in New York City face is what schema therapy terms, “social exclusion,” the process of being excluded from social groups and activities that can lead to feelings of isolation and loneliness. For gay men, social exclusion can be especially prevalent due to…
Managing differences is one of the most challenging aspects of a romantic relationship. We struggle in relationships to understand and accept “otherness” in those we choose to love. To cross over from our own indignation, reach out to our partners, listen deeply, validate, and negotiate difference forces us into uncomfortable…
Enhancing Connection: Effective Gay Couples Therapy Considering couples therapy for gay couples? Understand the unique benefits and specialized approaches to help you and your partner confront relationship challenges and strengthen your bond. Our guide offers insights into navigating societal stigma, improving communication, and enhancing emotional intimacy within the LGBTQ+ context.…
Beyond Myths: Unveiling the Truth About Lesbian Bed Death Introduction: A Wink at the Intrigues of Intimacy Welcome to the maze of human sexuality, where terms like “Lesbian Bed Death” lurk in the shadows of our bedrooms, whispering secrets of waning desire. As a sex therapist, I’m your guide to…
Therapy Can Be Lit For Your Gen Z Relationship Wassup fam, it’s ya boy Jon here – Gen Z couples therapist at GayCouplesTherapy.com spilling all the tea on why couples counseling can majorly upgrade your relationship, even though it means being on the proverbial shrink’s couch. I know therapy seems…
A Personal Guide for LGBTQ+ Couples Introduction: Embracing the Challenges of Cohabitation and “Dead Bedroom” Ready to join an insightful journey exploring the intricate, exciting, and occasionally challenging world of living together and preserving intimacy in an LGBTQ+ relationship? Are you stuck in a pattern for far too long of…
The Power of Sex Therapy Often, folks tend to come to sex therapy when they are already in a state of desperation or depression. We have scoured the internet and Googled questions that typically begin with “Is it normal that I” followed by our personal ailment. Perhaps we’ll feel brave…
You’ve heard the typical New Year’s resolutions before: lose weight, learn to play an instrument, save more money! These resolutions are all well and good, but they rarely last through the whole year. Most of us start strong for the first 2-4 weeks of the year, like the sudden surge…
3 Ways to Make Your Relationship Even Better Is it easy for you and your partner to talk to each other, even about what may seem like simple things? If it is, chances are, your relationship is in a good place, and your connection is strong. If this is not…
Gay couples who commit to the person they love may not always realize some of the challenges they face. For instance, one of the easiest things in a love relationship that can diminish is sexual desire. Lurking in any love relationship are ingredients that can combine to lower and even…
Valentine’s Day is just around the corner! However, this year’s celebrations may look a little different than usual. Okay, they may look significantly different. We’ve been in the throes of a global pandemic for nearly an entire calendar year now, and fatigue is rearing its ugly head in every aspect…
